Is something wrong with me?

My bf is aggressive in nature and also possessive about me, I haven’t been with any other man, so I wonder if all men are like that? Do all men use pathetically swear words sometimes? I try to gulp down these things thinking its only because of long distance phony relationship and when we are together everything will be so normal, everything that he says or sometimes if it happens because of me is just result of a frustrating long distance relationship. I have been noticing that he is a little narrow minded then my family, but again I think so what after all he loves me and that’s what matters. Well we have broken up 2 times before, but I always give our relationship another chance because thoughts of another man are totally unacceptable to me. I am so addicted to him even if he is rough with me. I just cant let go of him because he loves me so much, he says he cant love anyone else. But sometimes he is so harsh that it obviously renders my feelings cold. He always blames the fights on me, although I JUST SAY WHAT I THINK generally, and now I feel like I really am responsible for the fights. He also tells me that if I left him, God will punish me for leaving such a genuine lover and will punish me by giving me an aggressive spouse. I am scared . Its my fault to break up over and over again, its my fault to have such uncertain feelings? Am I not the kind of girl who can get along a relationship with anyone?!!!......