What should I do about my relationship?

I've been married for over 10 years now and I'll tell you the first year of living together is always the hardest. You no longer have private space and time away from each other. The real person is seen for the first time. So, there is an adjustment period. You guys need to sit down and talk about what you want from each other. My guess is, he will say more . You will say you want him to be more dependable? So, you have to work a deal. He needs to give you whatever it is you need in order for you to feel happy and relaxed enough to fulfill his needs. If you are frustrated with his lack of help (or whatever your frustrations are) you sure as heck aren't gonna want to jump in the sack with him and have cuddle time. :) You have to talk and tell him how you feel. You have to open up and communicate. We all have different needs and wants but no one is a mind reader. Try talking to him but without nagging. If he doesn't listen or give you what you are looking for, then maybe you should rethink your choice. But, if he responds positively, then you can move forward.