How come when i talk to my family about my problems..?

Maybe it is the way you present yourself. It could be just them but if everyone is treating you this way including your friends then you need to take a look of how you present your problems to people. Melodrama is annoying to people. I am not saying you are, just that you take a good look at how you act. If you are in school you might consider talking to the counselor there and see if they can help you.